The Friend Sandbox.

Pick one specific friendship. Answer honest. The decoder gives you a read.

Name a friend (just for you — private to this browser)

• After I hang out with this friend, I usually feel BETTER, not worse.
• They keep small secrets I told them.
• They were happy for me the last time something good happened to me.
• They don't make fun of me in front of other kids.
• They've shown up when I was sad, scared, or having a hard day.
• They tell me the truth, even when it's a little uncomfortable.
• They take turns — we sometimes do what I want, sometimes what they want.
• I can be my real self around them, not a fake version.

Build a map of your circles. Inner circle = the 1-3 you tell real stuff to. Outer = the 5-15 you play with. Saves only on this device.

Friend name Which circle? Inner circle (real-stuff friend) Outer circle (play/hang-out friend) Add to map

Pick the friend situation. Get 3 things you can actually say.